Sorry it's taken so long to follow up on the last post.
I'm sure when you saw 'series' you didn't think it was a WEEKLY series! ;-)
I haven't been in the frame of mind to blog.
Too much real life to deal with. Good and bad.
So, if you're just joining us, the boys and I have NOT had our H1N1 virus shot.
If you're interested in reading my thoughts on this, feel free to check out the first part of this series; NO Shot For YOU! The H1N1 Series - Part I
All caught up?
So you know that while the boys and I were waiting to be eligible for the vaccine, we got the flu.
It all started when I went to Alec's basketball game on Sunday (couple of weeks ago now).
They were with their father that weekend, but being the first game of the season, I wasn't about to miss it.
During the game, I noticed he was dragging his ass.
I chalked it up to the fact he had been to a Halloween Party the night before from 5-11pm.
I figured the trick or treating and late night had done him in.
When I picked him up from his dad's after dinner, he had just woken up with a headache, and was warm.
Again, figured the trick or treating and late night were taking it's toll.
Took his temp when we got home ... fever. I gave him Advil, and he went to bed.
Next morning, the fever was down, and he seemed fine so I sent him off to school.
By 3:30 when he got home, the fever was up over 100, and all the other symptoms had kicked in.
He stayed home the next day.
When Adam came home from school on Tuesday, he complained of being tired and had a headache.
The fever hit the next morning.
No school for you! Quarantine!
And me? When I went to bed on Tuesday night, I went with the intention of going to work the next morning (if Adam was able to go to school).
I woke up with with the freakin' flu!
Full fledged, kicked in, you're not getting your ass out of this bed, flu.
Was I surprised I got it, after Alec started showing signs?
You're talking to the girl who's had the double lung surgery, now has 15% less lungs and was diagnosed with COPD awhile back. Immune system less than 100%.
Oh, there's a respiratory pandemic going around?
Yeah, let me just move myself on over so you can come right on in Mr Flu.
Ya little bastard!
For three days my children were basically orphaned.
I COULD. NOT. MOVE.
Thankfully (?) since they weren't feeling well either, and spent most of THEIR time in bed, they weren't very demanding.
Oh ... it's morning? Breakfast? Milk in the fridge, cereal in the cupboard or waffles in the freezer.
Body crashes back into fetal position.
Last night's leftovers in the fridge.
It was crazy!
I DID however crawl out to make them dinner.
I had to. The 'guilty mom's' were setting in.
Not that they ate alot. Due to that old 'loss of appetite' symptom.
Me? I didn't eat for three days.
Had a clementine on the third day.
Thursday was spent in much of the same way.
A complete flu-induced HAZE.
A few days later, I had to ask Alec what I'd made for dinner on Thursday night.
For the life of me, I couldn't remember.
The flu hit us.
Alec and I hardest, and Adam with only a few symptoms.
We spent from Wed - Sun at home (Alec Tues-Sun) and four of those days were quarantined in the house.
We stayed away from everything. Work, school, basketball, etc.
We couldn't have gone anywhere if we'd wanted to anyway.
By the weekend, I had no choice. I HAD to get out and get groceries.
I was out of milk, bread, juice, eggs, etc. All the 'staples'.
And ... I hadn't had a coffee in FOUR DAYS, People!!!!! FOUR DAYS!!!!!
I was seriously jonesin' for a Tim's by then!
When I got to the store, I went straight to the pharmacy and asked if they had any masks.
Which surprised me.
So, I kept my head down, mouth shut, avoided all contact, got my stuff in under 5 min and got out.
I had spoken to the Dr.
I KNEW the diagnoses.
I know the H1N1 symptoms, process, rules, and spiel like a mantra.
If you have a confirmed case do this. If you have an unconfirmed case, but are presenting symptoms, do the same thing.
If you're around someone who is presenting symptoms, but you are fine, go out, live your life as usual.
I spoke to the Clinic when Alec first showed many of the symptoms on Monday night.
Diagnosis? STAY HOME!
I spoke to the Dr again once I started showing them on Wed.
The advice was the same.
Basically, there is ONE flu going around, if you have the identified symptoms, you have it. Stay home. Stay away from people. Treat the fever, headache and cough. Rest.
And you know what?
Your body doesn't give you a choice anyway.
So here's my take on this flu, and the whole experience.
- * When it hits, it hits HARD and FAST.
- * Don't bother trying to get out of bed, no ... really ... just STAY there.
- * No, that is not a knitting needle poking through your eye and into your brain, it's simply a flu-induced headache, that should be gone in a few days ... really.
- * You did not walk in your sleep and throw your body off a cliff. Those aches and pains? Yeah, thank the virus that's roaming around on your insides.
- * Food? Uhhhh ... no.
- * Cough? Nasty until it's under control.
- * Chills, fever. Yup, yup.
- * And if you have to deal with employers who require notes after 2-3 days ... god help you! Cause you're NOT making it out of the house to get that note!
Nope, H1N1 ain't been no fun!
But there IS an up side to this virus!
Come on, People, you know me! I HAVE to find a freakin' up side to this!
No stomach issues!
Which is a huge WooHoo for people like me who HATE puking with an almighty passion.
And there's another positive to consider.
We've been through it, and recovered, vaccine free.
Our bodies have now (hopefully) begun to build up a natural immunity to it, and this one bout will be the ONLY one ... this year.
There will be NO Part III to the H1N1 Series
When I originally had the idea for this 'H1N1 series', I had three things in particular I wanted to talk about.
The vaccine, actually having this H1N1 and the policies around being absent from work during the pandemic.
I have decided not to include the third post.
The reason I originally wanted to vent about it is no longer an issue.
With help, policy was changed, and people were looked at individually.
I will simply say this; All organizations need to take the seriousness of this pandemic into consideration, when advising their employees on 'sick time policy'.
People who have come down with this little beast, are simply NOT able to get to the doctor's office on day 2-3. And some, maybe longer!
And do any of us REALLY want to be dragging our sick selves, and sick families down there, to expose and infect others?
Um ... NO!
In this particular case, with this particular flu, common sense needs to be put before 'policy'.
And that's all I have to say about that.
Stay healthy everyone!